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Honest answers about travelling solo, written for the woman who is still deciding. No pep talks, no pretending it is easy.

Is Solo Travel Safe for Women? The Honest Answer

Is Solo Travel Safe for Women? The Honest Answer

Not the scared version and not the everything is fine version. A straight answer about how safe solo female travel actually is, and what the risk really looks like.

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Nobody Knows Where You Are Today. Here Is Why That Matters

Nobody Knows Where You Are Today. Here Is Why That Matters

When you travel alone, nobody notices you missed a day. Here is what fills that gap, and why it takes about ten minutes to sort out before you fly.

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How to Research What Actually Happens Where You Are Going

How to Research What Actually Happens Where You Are Going

You cannot prepare for everything, but every region has a pattern. Here is the five minute version, and where checking turns into feeding the fear.

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What Travel Insurance Actually Covers When a Region Is Disrupted

What Travel Insurance Actually Covers When a Region Is Disrupted

Wildfires, earthquakes and heat can disrupt a trip without cancelling it. Here is what to check in a policy before you buy, and what to ask out loud.

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Traveling Alone in Extreme Heat, and Why It Is Different on Your Own

Traveling Alone in Extreme Heat, and Why It Is Different on Your Own

Heat is easier to misjudge than you think, and traveling alone means nobody else is watching either. What that changes about planning a summer trip.

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How Do I Choose My First Solo Travel Destination?

How Do I Choose My First Solo Travel Destination?

The wrong first destination can put you off solo travel for good. Here is how to think about choosing one that fits you, not the one everyone else recommends.

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Is It Weird to Eat Alone on Holiday? No, and Here Is Why

Is It Weird to Eat Alone on Holiday? No, and Here Is Why

Eating alone in a restaurant is the fear that keeps women in the hotel room. Here is what is actually happening in that room, and why nobody is watching.

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The Honest Truth About Travelling as a black woman Alone

The Honest Truth About Travelling as a black woman Alone

Not the horror stories and not the pretend it is fine version. An honest account of what solo travel is actually like as a black woman, from someone who goes.

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Your Friend Keeps Cancelling the Trip. Should You Just Go Alone?

Your Friend Keeps Cancelling the Trip. Should You Just Go Alone?

The trip you planned together keeps getting postponed. Here is how to tell whether she is ever really coming, and whether it is time to book it alone.

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Is Istanbul Safe for Solo Female Travelers?

Is Istanbul Safe for Solo Female Travelers?

A straight answer about solo female travel in Istanbul, from a woman who went without speaking a word of Turkish. What the city is really like on your own.

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Is Punta Cana Good for Solo Female Travelers?

Is Punta Cana Good for Solo Female Travelers?

Punta Cana is sold as a couples and resort destination. Here is what one week there actually looked like on my own, from someone who has done it twice.

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I Thought I Wanted a Slow Solo Trip. I Was Wrong.

I Thought I Wanted a Slow Solo Trip. I Was Wrong.

I planned a quiet solo trip to Fuerteventura and was bored by day three. What fixed it says something about how you should plan a solo trip for yourself.

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Solo Travel Hair: How to Plan It Around Your Trip

Solo Travel Hair: How to Plan It Around Your Trip

The hair question quietly delays trips nobody admits to postponing. Here is how to think about your hair before you fly, from climate to water to packing.

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Is It Normal to Feel Scared Before Your First Solo Trip?

Is It Normal to Feel Scared Before Your First Solo Trip?

If you are terrified before your first solo trip, nothing is wrong with you. Here is what that fear looks like, when it shows up, and when it is worth listening to.

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My Family Thinks Solo Travel Is Dangerous. What Do I Do?

My Family Thinks Solo Travel Is Dangerous. What Do I Do?

Your family thinks traveling alone is reckless and they are not shy about saying so. Here is where their fear comes from, and how to hold your ground without a fight.

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What If I Book a Solo Trip and Then Panic?

What If I Book a Solo Trip and Then Panic?

You booked it, and now your stomach is in knots and you want to cancel. Here is why the panic shows up after booking, and what it actually means.

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